Now let’s talk about wives and their mother in law,this is one topic that is sensitive.Dear wives,how do you treat your mother in law,we all understand the importance of a mother and wife in the life of a man.We also know, the sort of perceived rivalry between a wife and a mother in most cases.
This is a wrong perception,women are associated with strength and the strength of a wife and a mother should be an added advantage to the man if there is unity and love between a wife and her mother in law.
How many times have you heard anyone had problems with their father in law, hardly ever, it’s always the mother in law. It’s still about women working with women.  Looking at sides; you could be the wife, and you could be the mother in law. If you were the wife why can’t you work well with your mother in law? I know there are some really terrible women, but I have grown to realize that there is really no one you cannot win with love. Many women go into marriage just prepared for battle with their mother in law, Why? This woman birthed that man that is giving you joy, she deserves to be loved by you, She deserves your attention, She’s a mother (a woman like yourself).
Spoil her; you are only sowing a seed for your own old age. Sometimes it would cost you time, money, energy e.t.c but it’s worth it. Whether you like it or not, men love their mothers very much, Wifey has a big spot in his heart and there is a different spot for mother. though there are so many mother in-law who are mean, insatiable and condescending,  just win her with love, and fight all your battle on your knees, ask God to take over her heart for you and turn her heart of stone to a heart of flesh.

Mothers willingly release your son to his wife and let them cleave. Win a daughter, she’s your child, tenderly counsel her with love, and most times, mind your own business, give your son’s wife love like you love your son, and guess what, she will always pray for you and find a friend in you. Don’t become the mother inlaw, which your son’s wife will be so fed up with your wahala and she would be praying fire prayers on your head so she can enjoy her husband in peace. Patience, kindness, compassion and love are qualities which when cultivated generates progress, peace, tranquility, long life and youthfulness.

 There is so much strength in unity, women must learn to start helping each other and make a difference, women are beginning to take over most of the fields and areas that were manned by men in the past, Lets help each other to stay on top. All we need is to encourage one another in love and stop criticizing one another. If we all made up our minds to operate in love, we are on the way. Being a woman making it in a man’s world is tough enough, do what you can be to help another succeed. Before too long, you would find yourself succeeding.


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